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Sunday, May 18, 2008

It is What We Make of It, Right?

So, writing tonight in my other journal I couldn't stop the following from running through my mind.

Featuring...... Robert Frost!

The Road Not Taken
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
That was the first poem I memorized, you know? The first real adult one anyway. I guess I was probably 9 or 10 or some weird age where I should not be so into Robert Frost, but I was and I memorized it and I remember reading it out loud to the class, by memory for some reason. And being proud. The second was a much sadder one that I had memorized. I must have been a little older- closer to 11 or so when the first darkness began. I think of this to tonight. She was of course manic depressive and therefore impressive...
Edna St. Vincent Millay
Dirge Without Music
I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground.
So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind:
Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lovely. Crowned
With lilies and with laurel they go; but I am not resigned.
Lovers and thinkers, into the earth with you.
Be one with the dull, the indiscriminate dust.
A fragment of what you felt, of what you knew,
A formula, a phrase remains,- but the best is lost.
The answers quick and keen, the honest look, the laughter, the love,-
They are gone. They are gone to feed the roses. Elegant and curled
Is the blossom. Fragrant is the blossom. I know. But I do not approve.
More precious was the light in your eyes than all the roses in the world.
Down, down, down into the darkness of the grave
Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind;
Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave.
I know. But I do not approve. And I am not resigned.
And so that's all for tonight. Later.

Friday, May 16, 2008

I cannot stand those who do not take control for their own actions. It is unhealthy to justify one's actions and anger by blaming others. Putting another person down and/or name calling is not adult behavior and should not be tolerated by anyone.

Life is short. It can be good. We have that right. And damnit, I deserve it because I give it.